Tomorrow's September. Start of a new month, a new season. It's like a whole new beginning. Time to leave our loose clothes behind and start planning our warmer outfits. While the weather's still great, there is no need to wear our beloved chunky knits, but there's still a way to smuggle a bit of autumn into our everyday looks. So don't pack away your favourite summer pieces yet because with some tricks you can easily take your warm-weather clothes to fall.

Me, who's always been awkward at making contact with new people, decided to write a segment about our relationships in the era of social media.

I'm 23, an adult so it's kind of expected to have a boyfriend at this age. Whenever I see a long-lost friend of Mum I always, every time get the annoying question. Do you have a boyfriend? Oh, please... Sorry, but I'm busy dating myself. I'm busy making a career and being my best self. I don't have time for childish and unserious boys who don't know what the hell they want. I have enough of being in doubt, I have enough of being the stupid and naive one in a relationship. So no, I don't have a boyfriend and guess what, I'm proud and happy to be single.

Come on, it's 2017 why is it still an expectation for girls to have a relationship in their twenties?! Why we can't be happy without men? Of course, we can. Why is bad that we choose career over boyfriend? It's absolutely not. I rather be alone than in a toxic relationship.

I always felt embarrassed when they asked me if I was in a relationship or not. I felt weird and an outcast and sometimes I wondered is there something wrong with me? I mean I had my first relationship when I was 19 and I have to tell you there was a huge pressure on me. All my friends had their first boyfriends years before me and I really thought a lot that I'm not good enough, I'm ugly and just no one likes me. In reality, I am very picky... way too much. But now I'm 23 and I understand that we don't always need someone by our sides, romantically. Having a boyfriend or girlfriend does not define us.

How can you spend quality time alone?

Many think they need someone else to have a good time but I always say if you're truly comfortable with yourself and your life, you will find the peace and quietness calming rather than overwhelming.

Perks of dating yourself is you can start doing it right now. Turn on a great music and relax a little bit as easy as it is. Dating yourself I think is the best thing you can do to yourself.

As I mentioned I had my ups and downs before, I read many motivational, self-help books which I don't want to run them down but they are all the same just with different stories which seriously doesn't help us. I talk from experience, I read many books, I invested in self-help books a lot but at the end, it hasn't motivated me enough to start doing the right thing. I knew deep down that I needed a change but still reading all those things... they weren't enough motivation. So I'm telling you to spend time with yourself first. Invest in yourself rather than in books which just show you some path to follow or where to start but it won't have an effect as huge as a real life situation on you.
Dating yourself is a way to find your motivation and path in life. I found blogging which grew out to be one of my biggest passion and which I am truly proud of.

Also, I started cooking more seriously. Watch out for recipes in the future. It's a great way to relax at the end of the day and not to mention you can get to eat the result. I often experiment with special cuisines and I love to explore different tastes and substances.
If you're not good at cooking then just visit your favourite restaurant and have a nice evening. It's really not embarrassing eating alone, you get to visit places you want. You don't have to show attention to anyone. A movie night is another great way to spend time alone. I love to travel alone or just exploring the city's hidden parts. Sometimes it's such a shame no one can take cool photos of me but it's really amazing to find something on your own.

You can be whole in a relationship only when you're confident and in love with yourself. While you're single take the time and get to know yourself. Explore what you like and where you find happiness and when you find someone special it will be everything much easier.
You may think being alone s*cks I hope after this post you'll realise that being single has so many options I can't count. Of course, it can't replace the feeling when sometimes waits for you at home after work but it's definitely not the end of the world. It's just up to you if you see the single life as an adventure or not. It can be tough but also the happiest and memorable years of your life.

How do you cope with being single? What do you like to do alone?


I bet you know the feeling which hunts you on Sunday night. The knot in your stomach that the next day is Monday, a workday, the end of the weekend. But should you feel down because it's Monday?
For years I felt the same way, struggling to get up in the morning and feeling angry about everyone and everything. Years passed and from a grumpy girl, I grew to be a grown-up morning person. Never in my life have I imagined that I would get up at 7 or 8 or even 6 am to have breakfast and write. Guess what I only sleep late at weekends.

So in the past few days, I've been nominated for the Liebster Award by two lovely bloggers. Fanni from and Chloe from  I received this two nominations almost at the same time I will do both in one post and thank you guys for selecting me. For my lovely readers don't forget to check out their blogs you won't regret it.

I wanted to do a Facts about me post but after receiving this nomination I don't think I will so soon. So I try to include as many interesting facts as I can and I try to answer the questions attentively.

In my latest post about blogging, I talked about how blogging is easy because you can start it with zero cash. When it comes to photography what should we do? Especially if you don't have any fancy cameras yet. Should you invest in one?
Of course, if you want to look more professional and you want to blog as your profession I'd say yes. Also at the beginning, it's completely acceptable to use your phone or some simple compact cameras while you're starting out.

Funny thing, me giving relationship advice although my past relationship was completely f*cked up. Not to mention I am single at the moment. However, I think my bad decisions helped to give an honest and experienced advice. To be honest it was an on and off thing and unfortunately, it was the most serious one. I'm struggling to find someone who understands me and I don't want to be with someone I don't like genuinely. So I rather spend my time alone. Well, that relationship lasted for 3 years on and off which drained all my energy and self-confidence but I was blinded by love and I was totally naive. Now I know that I held onto it for too long, I should've let it go a long time ago. Well, and this is how today's post came to life.

When it comes to luxury brands, no question Gucci's the hottest and most popular nowadays. With its quirky and unusual pairings, Gucci's among many celebrities and fashion influencer's favourite. It's no wonder everyone tries to steal the Gucci look. The question is what it takes to get the Gucci looks? What are the basics of getting the Gucci vibe?

Women's rights. Equality. Could all be a trend nowadays? Did it become too mainstream? Could something like Feminism be mainstream?

This is the post I've been planning to write and hit publish for weeks if not months. Unfortunately, I never got the time to actually start writing about this topic. So what is Feminism?  If you search for Feminism and look up the meaning, this is what our best friend Google says:

Being new is always sucks. Trying to find your way into a new community is hard. However, fortunately, the Blogging Community is one of the kindest ones out there. But still, adapting yourself to a new environment, getting used to things you've never done before.

Being a blogger, being a huge influential well-known blogger from the outside it looks absolutely gorgeous. Enviable. 
So most people think that blogging is a piece of cake. I can do it. I can't count on my two hands how new blogs I see weekly, even daily. And there are so many great ones out there. Most of the time these people start out just because of the above-mentioned disbeliefs. Blogging is easy, it's full of glamour, going to events, getting free stuff. Well, it's not my dear. It's definitely, maybe once you get huge but until...good luck. They might think it's easy to make it in blogging. And again let me help you, it's not. It won't happen overnight. You have to work hard for it.

Today I am going to talk about how much effort and brainstorming goes into creating content every week. As I previously mentioned in a post ( read it here), most people think about blogging as a joke. So how much work goes into creating a post?!

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